"Grudge" is one of those words that defines itself. Its very
sound betrays its meaning.
Say it out loud, slowly: "Grr-uuud-ge."
It starts with a growl. "Grr…" Like a bear with bad breath
coming out of hibernation or a mangy mongrel defending his
bone in an alley. "Grr…"
Being near a resentful person and petting a growling dog
are equally enjoyable.
Don't you just love being next to people who are nursing a
grudge? Isn't it a delight to listen to them singing their songs of woe?
They are soooo optimistic, so full of hope! They are just bubbling with life.
You know better. You know as well as I that if they are bubbling with
anything it is anger. And if they are full of anything, it is poisonous
barbs of condemnation for all the people who have hurt them.
Grudge bearers and anger animals are a lot alike. Both are irritable.
Both are explosive. Both can be rabid. Someone needs to make a sign that
Can be worn around the neck of the resentful: "Beware of the Grrrudge Bearer."
It is not enough to accuse, the other person's character must be attacked. It's
insufficient to point a finger, a rifle must be aimed. Slander is slung.
Names are called. Circles are drawn. Walls are built. And enemies are made….
Is this the way you are coping with your hurts?
(The Devotional Bible)
Lesson for today:
Think about and discuss with a loved one, the ways your life has been
affected by a grudge.
In Christ,
Rick